Comments
following
are some of the comments Mr. Cowan received about his presentations
and writings.
“A new and original thinker.”
— Philip K. Dick
Author — Do Androids Dream
Electric
Sheep? (Blade Runner), Valis,
and The Minority Report
“You have truly touched my life; you will be in
my memory for a long time (and hopefully my friends' minds to whom
I've been telling about your presentation). Thank you again.”
— High School Student
in a letter to the author
“Fabulous — focused, thoughtful important
and engaging.” • “Extremely thought-provoking and
stimulating. I felt inspired.” • “Mr. Cowan was phenomenal!” • "Very
professional — incredibly valuable.” • “Outstanding
material, presentation and very much needed today.” • “Very
impressed — I wish the session could have been longer!” • “Very
thought-provoking and interesting! Great stuff!” • "Clear,
practical and stimulating.” • “Great speaker! Very
thorough presentation.”
— Evaluation Comments
(Overall Evaluation = “Excellent”)
Violence & Powerful Learning
2004 Association for Supervision and
Curriculum Development 59th Annual Conference
New Orleans, Louisiana
"Excellent model, very clear connection to character." • "Effective
and efficient use of time." • "Very insightful — it helped
me, as a counselor, to see violence in a new light."
— Participant Comments
Overall presentation rating = "Excellent"
2004 Character Education Partnership
National Forum
Houston, Texas
“Ari Cowan's extensive experience as a consultant
to major healthcare organizations and his ability to institute positive
change has earned him great respect throughout the healing community.
In particular, Mr. Cowan's immense passion and unique understanding
of the issues of violence makes him well qualified to write on the
subject. He exhibits profound insight into the devastating effects
of violence and proposes clear, concise, success-oriented solutions
to eliminating acts of aggression in our society. Mr. Cowan takes a
fresh approach to understanding violence by highlighting the cultural
influences that perpetuate and escalate violent behavior. His remarks
will undoubtedly instill hope as well as challenge all of us to eradicate
violence in our world.”
— Daniel R. Valentine, PhD, MFT,
DAC
Chief Executive Officer,
Sharp Vista Pacifica Chemical Dependency
Recovery Hospital
Treating Clinician,
National Football League's Program for
Substances of Abuse

"An audience of students, parents, and teachers [at the
Mothers Against Violence in America conference] sat mesmerized by [Mr.
Cowan's] invitation to investigate the relationship between boys and
violence. His questions about men and boys challenged us to rethink
the nature of masculinity; his statements provoked meaningful and intense
discussions about boys growing up in our culture. I knew this was a
man who my husband, my son, and my daughters should hear. This was
a message that students and parents should hear. When Ari spoke of
what it is to be a boy in America, he spoke to what it is to be human.
He captivated all of us with his message of compassion and hope."
— Barbara Padden
Teacher
Kenmore Jr. High School
“Wonderful! Great knowledge of subject matter.” • “You
should do this every day.” • “Best workshop so far.” • “Great
presentation style.” • “Terrific.” • “Should
keynote.” • “Provocative and rejuvenating.” • “Excellent.” • “Powerful.” • “Impressed
with presenter's commitment.” • “Very motivational.”• “Inspiring,
very emotional stuff.” • “One of the best workshops
I've attended.” • “Great humor.” • “Impactive.” • “Almost
an experience from a 'higher power.” • “Great handouts,
format.”
— Evaluation Comments (Overall
Evaluation = “Excellent”)
1994 Annual Adolescent Pregnancy Professionals
Fall Conference
Bellevue, Washington
“Mr. Cowan's book [Acts
of Courage, Acts of Cowardice: Transcending the Culture of Violence ] captures
the spirit and very soul of how to help our children become non-violent
adults. His heart- touching prose coupled with a masterful weaving
of important data combine to make a compelling read that I could not
put down. This book is a resource for all who care about our children
and society. Parents and professionals must save a place for Acts of
Courage on their bookshelves.”
— Thomas M. Dramer, EdD
Educator
Recipient, Washington State
Award for Excellence in Education
Former Adjunct Professor, Leslie
College
Adjunct Professor, Seattle Pacific
University
and Adjunct Professor, City
College
“You provided us with a fun, educational experience.
Your anecdotes were unforgettable and you really made a lasting impression
on me as well as everyone.”
— Student
Alternative High School
in a letter to the author
“Ari Cowan is a knowledgeable and informed writer
and speaker who has done his research and knows the topic of violence
intimately. Having come from an abusive childhood and youth, Mr. Cowan
is able to bring a personal perspective to the issue of violence. He
is able to speak about this personal and horrifying topic with deep
understanding and compassion.”
— Elaine Childs-Gowell, PhD
Author, Good Grief Rituals and
Stages of Ages
Founder, Institute for Developmental
Education and Psychotherapy
Former Member of the Board of Directors,
Association for Pre- and Perinatal Psychology
and Health

“Your speech moved me. I think people/teens would
really listen to you and take into consideration what you have to say.”
— High School Student
in a letter to the author
“Author Ari Cowan offers a deeply thoughtful analysis
of the problem of violence that goes beyond critique to offer compassionate,
practical solutions toward healing the personal and societal wounds
that violence has begotten. The beginning of the end of violence starts
with this book [Acts of Courage, Acts
of Cowardice: Transcending the Culture of Violence].”
“A must-read for any parent, teacher, counselor,
or doctor.”
— Kathleen Ervin, MFCC
Program Coordinator
Venture Adolescent Day Treatment Program
“I liked Ari's openness — he held my attention.
I couldn't leave as I originally planned on.” “A really
unique and new approach to an old problem.” “Just what
I was looking for.” “This helped me a great deal!”
— Evaluation Comments (Overall
Evaluation = “Excellent”)
2003 Association for Supervision and
Curriculum Development
58th Annual Conference
San Francisco, California
“After listening to your speech I couldn't help
but tell my friends and family what you had to say. This was the best
presentation I have ever had the privelage [sic] of listening [sic].”
— Student
Alternative High School
in a letter to the author
“Ari brings to the conversation on violence a clear
and realistic view of the core issues. I have sat with Ari in rooms
full of people from all walks of life; among them judges, doctors,
and counselors who deal with the issue of violence on a daily basis.
Ari meets people where they are, acknowledges every person's humanity
and invites us to begin to make a difference.”
— Howard Winkler
Parent Educator
ParentEd
“Ari Cowan is a great friendly shy giant of a man
with an encompassing knowledge and understanding of violence. He presented “Out
of the Belly of the Beast: A Remembrance” at the 1998 Love of
Violence Conference at the University of Washington, sponsored by the
Ernest Becker Foundation. The time slot was right after lunch when
you have to be a good speaker to hold an audience. Ari was superb.
Attendees loved him, hanging on his every word. He immediately connected
with them and used humor, gesture, self-deprecation, even a little
melodrama — all to very good effect. He was telling his story
so there was no reading from notes, let alone a text. With the gift
of a splendid speaking voice and a mastery of language, his message
came across effectively and clearly.”
— Neil J. Elgee, MD
Founder and President
The Ernest Becker Foundation

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